Hi, I'm Matt.

Queer Men's Life Coach

Creative Arts Therapy Masters Degree

Meditation Teacher (200hr MTT)

Tarot Card Reader (14+ years)

Tantric Embodiment Guide (8+ years)

Crystal Energy Healer (7+ years)

Queer Mystic


It's great to (informally and electronically) meet you. 

As you can see from the list above, my work takes a very unique approach, integrating all aspects of who I am to be of service to the queer male collective. As a spiritual seeker of many years, understanding myself, others, as well as things greater than us, has always been at the forefront of my curiosity.

I won't sugarcoat it - I had a pretty rough time growing up gay. The struggle of loving myself when my family and the world at large had difficulty accepting me was a great one. Eventually as I aged, this struggle became less and less, and I was permitted to flourish and grow, catching up to everyone else who may have had it a bit easier.

But I noticed something peculiar...

It seemed like everywhere I looked, there were queer (gay/bi/trans/pan) men who were regularly suffering within our community... despite their upbringing, and despite their position in life.

As I began navigating queer adulthood, looking for community, friends, and lovers, I realized there was a MASSIVE disconnect between all the super happy Pride ads and the individual stories of queer men... Sure, we've come a long way since the 70's and 80's in regards to societal acceptance, rights, and finding true connections...but there are still too many queer men who are struggling for my liking.

It became evident to me that my journey, skillsets, knowledge, education, and empathy needed to be combined in order to help other queer men who were struggling to find their way, find their clan, find their home.

I want to see queer men win.

I want to see queer men THRIVE!

I've always known that I wanted to help others. Even as a little gay boy, I felt inspired to uplift, motivate, and (as I grew more confident in myself) empower others. My personal growth journey has been one of survival, transformation, integration, and exploration. Much like a queer child coming to terms with who they are, and going through the trial-by-fire process of coming out and emerging into the world as a queer adult, the container I provide for my clients creates a safe space for this personal alchemy to occur. 


As a Queer Men’s Life Coach, I specialize in providing holistic wellness, spirituality, and sexual coaching to gay, bi, pansexual, trans-masc, and questioning men. I understand that being a queer man in today's world comes with its own unique challenges and obstacles. My mission is to empower queer men to live their best lives by offering high-impact personalized coaching and on-going support.

My approach to coaching is centred around four pillars: spiritual holistic wellness, sexual wellbeing, building better connections, and embodying our life’s purpose. I believe that these four areas are interconnected and developing deep awareness of them COMPLETELY changes our lives.

 In terms of spiritual holistic wellness, I believe that every person has their own unique spiritual path. I work with my clients to help them discover their own spiritual practices and to integrate them into their daily lives in a way that brings them greater peace and fulfillment.

 When it comes to sexual wellbeing, I understand that sex is an important part of life for many queer men (as a gay man myself, I completely relate). By cultivating awareness around our desires and physical body, my clients learn to develop healthy, fulfilling and satisfying sex lives.

Addressing the client's relationships with others is a critical aspect of their personal transformation. Healthier relationships with lovers, family, friends, and even co-workers starts by improving communication and removing the fear of using our authentic voice. By embracing vulnerability, we make room for better connections in our lives.

Last, but certainly not least, embodying your life purpose starts with identifying what you truly want out of life. Many of us are working a job we hate, stuck in headspace that do not serve us, and have left our dreams to the wayside. Our work together will shake you awake to fully achieve your dreams and embody your ideal future. 

I offer my work in a range of methodologies, including one-on-one coaching, group coaching, and workshops. When you work with me, we’ll focus on all aspects of a queer man's life, including mental, emotional, spiritual, physical and sexual wellbeing. Through the high impact coaching process, I’ve helped countless queer men to overcome the challenges and obstacles that are holding them back, and to develop the skills and mindset they need to create the life they want.

My goal, and mission, is to help queer men empower their self, sex, and spirit. 

To authentically express their desires and get what they want.

To feel fully aligned with themselves and their life.

Interested in working with me?

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